America Dream
Moving to another country is not as easy or smooth as many people think, even if it’s about chasing the so-called "American Dream." Life, wherever it may be, is a challenge and an adventure. In every place, we must adapt and follow government rules. These challenges also serve as moments to step out of our comfort zones.
I was born and raised in Bali, and this is my first time truly living abroad. Before this, I had visited more than 20 countries across Europe, Australia, and Asia, but those were just visits on tourist visas. However, this time, it’s different—this is a major challenge for me as I move and settle in San Diego, California, USA. It's not as easy as people might imagine.
Initially, I thought everyone here would be very friendly and greet one another, even if they didn’t know each other—especially since I live near the beach in Ocean Beach, San Diego. However, finding friends is not as simple as I had imagined. The cost of living here is extremely high; it’s often said to be the most expensive state in all of the USA. Nevertheless, the area is very clean and the views are beautiful. The beaches are mesmerizing, especially when watching the waves and sunsets. People often sit on their cars, enjoying these moments with a bottle of drink in hand. Occasionally, I smell the scent of marijuana—it’s quite common here. However, that doesn’t mean people are unhealthy. In fact, many of them regularly exercise and maintain fit, healthy bodies.
Everything they have, whether it’s their beautifully sculpted bodies or their luxury cars, is undoubtedly a result of hard work. Many of them even work two or three jobs to achieve this lifestyle.
Returning to my story, many people have asked why I decided to move to America, especially when Bali is often seen as a "paradise" on Earth. Many dream of visiting or even living in Bali. But my life in Bali was already very comfortable. I owned three houses, two of which were empty after my parents passed away. I had a business and had been running a social organization for 18 years. Although life in Bali was not excessive, it was sufficient.
However, the loss of people I deeply loved, like my parents within the past three years and a close friend, Jorgan, who passed away due to suicide, left me deeply shaken. This loss was incredibly hard to accept. In Bali, I felt the environment became too competitive after COVID-19, and many people tried to bring me down out of jealousy over what I had achieved through my organization.
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